I would imagine you are reading this because you just lost your ex. There are three steps that you will need to do in your plan of how to get my ex back.
Step one
cut off all communication with your ex. Use none of the various methods that you usually employ to get in contact with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I know this is the opposite of what you really want to do but, trust me, this step is essential in your plan of how to get your ex back.
Step two
Figure out what went wrong. You cannot skimp this step. Really study your relationship and the breakup to pinpoint where problems started. If you think the problems started in the last month, look over the last year. Usually you find out there were earlier problems going on that caused the breakup. You really need to nail it down.
Step three
Now that you have isolated the real basis for your breakup you can now make a plan on how to recontact your ex.
The minimum you should spend on this step is one week. If not, utilize the rest of that week in making a plan of re-contacting your ex. Whatever you do make sure you take your time on this step. It is also vital that you understand completely what went wrong and what is most important, the part you played in it.
You should have an upbeat point of view when you speak to your boyfriend/girlfriend, being happy and carefree. You really need to be light and smiley, not depressed or angry. This should be a casual connection. See how it goes. If you are on the right path continue. If not, redo step two. If step two looks good, you can try a new step three, but step two is usually the problem.
Step one
cut off all communication with your ex. Use none of the various methods that you usually employ to get in contact with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I know this is the opposite of what you really want to do but, trust me, this step is essential in your plan of how to get your ex back.
Step two
Figure out what went wrong. You cannot skimp this step. Really study your relationship and the breakup to pinpoint where problems started. If you think the problems started in the last month, look over the last year. Usually you find out there were earlier problems going on that caused the breakup. You really need to nail it down.
Step three
Now that you have isolated the real basis for your breakup you can now make a plan on how to recontact your ex.
The minimum you should spend on this step is one week. If not, utilize the rest of that week in making a plan of re-contacting your ex. Whatever you do make sure you take your time on this step. It is also vital that you understand completely what went wrong and what is most important, the part you played in it.
You should have an upbeat point of view when you speak to your boyfriend/girlfriend, being happy and carefree. You really need to be light and smiley, not depressed or angry. This should be a casual connection. See how it goes. If you are on the right path continue. If not, redo step two. If step two looks good, you can try a new step three, but step two is usually the problem.
Your opening moves in your plan of how to get my ex back are these three steps.
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